 | But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander. |
 | But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear: Having a good conscience; that, whereas they speak evil of you, as of evildoers, they may be ashamed that falsely accuse your good conversation in Christ. |
 | but sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence; and keep a good conscience so that in the thing in which you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ will be put to shame. |
| 1 Peter 3:15-16 |
Commentary
Have you ever met a Christian who was prepared to correct everyone around them but didn't have gentleness or respect for those who disagree? In an age of reality TV we have lost the art of respectfully disagreeing. One of the things that I have come to realize is that it's my job to answer those around me who ask about Christ, but it's the Holy Spirit's job to win their hearts. This keeps me from taking on the pressure to be right or win the argument. We can win the battle but lose the war for someone's soul. Sometimes the greatest statement is how we endure ridicule or slander. Remember Jesus, who when He was slandered didn't retaliate. Sometimes it's our suffering that becomes our greatest witness.Today's commentary by:
Dave Whitehead, Senior Pastor, Grace NYC